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Mulling over what you could have done or should have said…

Mulling over what you could have done or should have said…

by An | Confidence Booster, Failure, Worrying Too Much About What Others Think

Things seem so much simpler, so much more clear and straightforward in hindsight.   All of a sudden, we realize what we SHOULD have done.   Or what we shouldn’t have said.   All of a sudden, we see that that thing COULDN’T have worked.   Or what would have...
Doing everything “right” didn’t bring me the success, confidence + fulfillment I hoped for.

Doing everything “right” didn’t bring me the success, confidence + fulfillment I hoped for.

by An | Confidence Booster, Failure, Right Career Fit, Worrying Too Much About What Others Think

I would be the one who liked the music others liked –  so I would fit right in.   I would be the one to read the books others loved – so I wouldn’t be judged.   I would be the one who took up running – not because it was fun, but because everyone was...
How to get crystal clear on what you want. [Exercise]

How to get crystal clear on what you want. [Exercise]

by An | Confidence Booster, Failure, Goal Getters Club, Worrying Too Much About What Others Think

If you’d feel more confident, what would your life look like?   If you wouldn’t worry about what they would think about you, what would your life look like?   If you wouldn’t worry about mistakes or getting it wrong, what would your life look like?  ...
You’ll feel more confident once you’ve …

You’ll feel more confident once you’ve …

by An | Confidence Booster, Failure, Worrying Too Much About What Others Think

Have you ever thought something like this:   I’ll feel more confident once I’ve ….. (fill in the blank).   I’ll feel more confident once I’ve nailed that presentation.   I’ll feel more confident once I’ve taken that additional...
Are you always trying to “fix yourself”? Here’s why that’s not working.

Are you always trying to “fix yourself”? Here’s why that’s not working.

by An | Confidence Booster, Failure, Worrying Too Much About What Others Think

Confidence does not require a specific set of talents + strengths.   Confidence does not require the absence of weaknesses, mistakes + screw-ups.   Confidence doesn’t require you to “fix” yourself.   You can be confident exactly the way you are...
Is confidence an innate talent or a skill that can be learned?

Is confidence an innate talent or a skill that can be learned?

by An | Confidence Booster, Failure, Worrying Too Much About What Others Think

Some people just seem to have it – that oozing confidence in themselves + what they’re capable of, right?   And that might lead us to believe that some people just have it, and some people don’t.   But oozing confidence is not innate.   Confidence is...
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